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Dear Jill’s Advice Column
Jill is a Self Advocate living in Abbotsford BC. She has a long history of writing an Advice column called Dear Jill. Send her a question to get a reply.
Dear Jill,
Friends are Mean and Nasty
Trudy
Dawson Creek
Dear Jill,
We have a few friends that are mean and nasty.
Can you please give us some advice on what to do.we have a few friends that are mean and nasty. Can you please give us some advice on what to do.
Dear Trudy,
I'd be careful around them. Are they real friends?
Some friends can say that they're friends, but you can never tell. If they keep acting the way they are, then what's the point of having a freindship?
Keeping the same Girlfriend
Tommy
Toronto
Dear Jill
I find it hard to keep the same girlfriend for more than a month. My mom says I should give up on girls but I think I have not found the right girl for me yet, What do you think? Tommy
Dear Tommy,
I know what you mean. Covid has made dating much tougher. I think you should start with the basics. Spruce yourself up. Good hygiene goes a long way. Focus on the other person. give it a try.
Take care,
Jill
Walking the Dog
Scott
Abbotsford
Dear Jill,
I got a dog for Christmas. How often should I take it for a walk?
Dear Tom,
You should take your dog for a walk at least 2 times a day.
Good luck
Jill
Diets make me Anxious
Bob
Vancouver
Dear Jill,
This is hard to write about. I am quite over weight and I am getting teased at school. I have tried losing weight but this makes me anxious and when I get anxious I eat more. What do you suggest
Bob
Dear Bob,
This is a good question, Bob. I have found that getting help from Weight Watchers or exercising with friends is the best approach.
Take care
Jill
Starting School - big Concerns
Suzy
Calgary
Dear Jill,
My son is about to start school. His name is Tim. I am afraid he will be teased for his size. What can I do to help.
Suzy from Calgary
Dear Suzy,
You should talk to the principal about your concerns, The school can probably link Tim up with some older students to mentor him and look out for him.
Take care,
Jill